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Deviousness `anmari has been spreading her infectious positivity throughout our community for over 6 years. Throughout this time Ana has been at the core of all things devious, passionately developing an eclectic gallery, helping organise devmeets, participating in chat events and also recently completed dedicating her time as a Community Volunteer. We are absolutely delighted to bestow the Deviousness Award for May 2013 to `anmari, congratulations! Read More
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Love 
its so much better when you're best friends instead of making out anyways vwv
other people sometimes feel female and sometimes feel female
maybe sometimes a person might also alternate to a third gender
i'm male but sometimes i don't really give a fuck and wish there was no such thing as genders
i don't know if that's me being really apathetic or if i'm genderfluid
the same thing goes for sexuality. it is fluid for some people.
i choose not to label my own sexuality because i don't think there is one out there. (plus labels really aren't that important).
sexuality and gender are not necessarily static.
someone could think they only like girls but suddenly find they are attracted to a boy or vice versa.
and what about people who are attracted to only the "third gender". i don't even think there is a sexuality for that.
the spectrum for both gender and sexuality is extremely varied and complicated so it's sometimes hard for someone to really understand who they are without first doing a bit of self-exploration, which happens during the teen years and a majority of people on deviantart are teenagers.
and related to the dating thing, teenagers are experiencing new feelings. they might not understand if what they're feeling is love or just infatuation which is why so many people get into dating online and many times it doesn't work out. (though it can in some cases). i agree that deviantart is not a dating site but if people wish to display their sexuality/gender/relationship status then so be it. deviantart is an art site. art is a creative outlet for out emotions and since our brains are developing to figure out our gender and sexuality then some people feel the need to express it.
But why do they find it necessary to flaunt it everywhere like it's a big deal.
I don't really care WHAT you are. It does t make you special. And I'm not looking to date you so I don't give a fuck on your sexuality. So why brag about it and throw it in everyone's faces?
I guess some people are worse than others when it comes to the Whole dating everyone phase my god.
it's either a null gender (nothing/androgynous) or a mix of both genders (kinda like hermaphrodite but not dealing with what's between the legs/also probably androgynous).
yeah when people flaunt it, there's something wrong there. i'm going to compare it a bit to transgender and say that third gender people might also experience dysphoria of some sort?
same with sexuality. there is no orientation that makes you special and above other people.
yeah, most of them grow up- hopefully.
how do you know all this woman
LOL hopefully
i have a lot of spare time
which may or may not be while i'm procrastinatingbut it's understandable that some people don't understand it. it's not an everyday topic. i mean as long as you respect people then it's cool.
there's no absolutes in this world, ha.